It's really all very simple

I decided that if i'm going to do something, I will feel good throughout the entire experience.

It has been a recent focus and theme, to create the most beautiful and pleasurable present moment that I possibly can. And it's helpful to remember that it matters not what other people are choosing, or even what others think of what I am choosing. The key is that I am pleased with myself and my decisions. And it's helpful to know what I like and what makes me happy.

If I'm going to sit on my couch and lounge, i will light Angel Dust, listen to the whirling of my dishwasher, and open my laptop with the intention to write.

If I'm going to sit at the front desk in a receptionist chair, I will play my favorite elevator-sounding music, offer a smile and a 'hello' to those who pass by, and say to myself three things I like about the person.

If I'm going to lay in bed a bit longer this morning, i will say my thank you's to the sun and the moon, bask in the unexpectedness of a new day, and welcome morning cat snuggles.

If I'm going to go somewhere, I will wear my favorite socks, my softest underwear, and the outfit that brings forth the most excitement, joy, and inner glamour.

Being alive is the special occasion. No need to wait for a Birthday or Christmas to wear that outfit you've been 'saving.' No need to wait until your next 'first day' to be best dressed. Don't wait until one special day to burn that candle or snuggle up with a special blanket. Don't wait until your wedding day to bust out your flashiest moves on the dance floor. Get used to your everyday being a special occasion, because you created it that way.

Have fun and do what you want, now. It's really all that simple.